Sunday, September 17, 2006
Talking about expectations. . .
Will you ever or have you ever expect too much from e ones you love? So much so that they became frustrated?That's how i feel at times.
What do you do when you like/love a person? But only to realise that they are not up to your 'dream girl's/dream guy's' standard? Would you. . .
[1]Accept that person for who he/she is?
[2]Try very hard to change/transform that person into what you want[esp physically]?
If you choose e latter, then think about how much you've pressurized the other party. But then again, a selfish thought will creep into your mind & destroy the sympathy you had previously for the other party. You'll start cursing vehemently in your mind of how unsatisfied you'll be if you were to just accept her/him because you feel that you should get e best! Imagine how selfish can a person get? Alright then,what if your partner wants you to remain celibate? Is this reasonable/essential/beneficial in the first place?
What's next? Those young lil boys and girls will then protest. Protest on what?
"oh..if you really do love a person, you'll do anything for him/her..." F* your theory of love ok? You lil insane ignorant kids! Don't even know what's love*smirks* C'mon man,if your love ones asked you to DIE for him/her[for no reason,mind you], will you still call that love? If you still do agree...you need a psychologist very badly. Cos i'll call that crazy!
Damn. Is the media invading too much into our minds? Why are we always looking out for perfection....
In conclusion, what i've blogged is what I think. You don't have to agree with me because you're not born to agree with what i've said nor are you paid to do so.
To round up e whole issue,i would like to say that if you really can't accept a certain thing about that particular guy/girl you like,STOP wasting his/her freaking time! No one's perfect anyway.
To the guys who really want me, if you're true to me, DON'T expect any of your so called perfection outta me! I couldn't be bothered, you idiotic himbos*roll eyes*
One more thing, I can't stand people telling me how i should be, how i should live my life etc. Don't try to manipulate me. I totally HATE it. I sympathize those people who are always trying to change others,make use of or manipulate them in some ways.Know why? Cos the fact is, they are the people who feel the most insecure! Therefore, they wanted things around them..or rather make use of things around them to make them feel perfect, to make them feel comfortable & to make them feel in control. Nvm about that, cos to me they are the weakest assholes around.Use your brains ok?There's no such thing as best of both world.
simple-d ! 4:08 AM
entries;
profile;
shouts;
plugs;
past;
Get awesome blog templates like this one from BlogSkins.com